I wore my hair down and kept it natural without chemicals all my childhood and most of my adult life. A year ago, I colored my hair from black to a auburn reddish color. That washed out to a light brown almost honey blonde color, which I love now! So natural my hair has always been, but adding color I don’t think it’s un-natural……
I just wanted a big change in my hair style. I’m a tomboy, so I wear my hair up a lot. Wanted to change it up. Going to do a full on honey blonde color change soon!
I use to chop it and keep it short to maintain easier, but in college I grew it out and loved it. Conditioners are expensive and good hair products are also so me being super frugal I wouldn’t want to spend a lot of money on hair that’s going to be washed daily and in a ponytail all day. I felt like I didn’t need to invest too much in my hair.
I would describe my hair as rebellious. But it’s super dry so its important that I deep condition.
I love my natural curls. I can straighten my hair if I want, but I love my curls. When I was younger ages 10 through 17, I used to never wear it down and curly and big and amazing, due to the people I grew up around. Being half Japanese and seeing the straight haired girls, my curls used to stand out. And already being tall, I didn’t want that could handle it. Once I got to college and in a more diverse setting, I let my hair down literally.
The most memorable and traumatizing moment was when I straighten my hair with a 100 hair flat iron. I wore if straight for a week and when I washed my hair my curls didn’t return to the full volume and bounce it had. I was super scared I messed up my curl pattern. So I cut my hair short and it grew out and I cut it again. To force my hair to grow and once my curls returned I never use a flat iron again. I will occasionally straighten my hair, but with a cheap flat iron. It took about 2 years for my hair to get back to its natural curly ways. I had a weak half wave curl that I hated, so I did a lot and decided to spend more and invest more into my hair health and curls.
The shorter my hair the curlier it would be. But I also enjoy my length. So that’s where Layers come into Play. I tried bangs before and would like to explore that again. I have one layer going to get 2 more and bangs in the front.
When I wear my hair curly and natural everyone loves it. I get compliments and even offers to grow out my hair Enough to make a wig. Go figure.
I wash my hair about 2 -3 times a week. My hair products hold up and all I need to do is some touch ups.
If I wash and go I do this….
I look at almost any and all IG hair pages and follow and view a lot of my fellow curly haired women. I love seeing how other ladies style and color and just value and accept their curls. I will try to copy a hair style and when it doesn’t work on me I will compliment that girl and say her hair style looks great!!!!
Embrace you hair! If you don’t like it change it. But remember there are plenty of women that want your texture, lengthen, hair color, natural curl, or whatever so embrace it and appreciate it. Also let’s help each other out by suggesting a product line and taking the time to support and exchange positive conversation.
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